I knew I liked you! And not *just* because Rin does... :o) I am pretty darn open myself, and I respect and appreciate that (how else are we to learn about and understand one another?).
So, I guess my questions aren't really well formed yet...sort of about what you like about/derive from BDSM, some concern, i.e. does it stem from any kind of self-deprecating tendency, etc.? I find it kind of a turn-on to think of being restrained, but more as a means of being able to accept pleasure without breing driven (or able) to reciprocate immediately.
I used to be kind of a sexpot, but have been out of practice for nearly a year now. It's been pretty good for me, I think, but I wonder what my big comeback will be...
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Date: 2004-01-11 07:17 am (UTC)I am pretty darn open myself, and I respect and appreciate that (how else are we to learn about and understand one another?).
So, I guess my questions aren't really well formed yet...sort of about what you like about/derive from BDSM, some concern, i.e. does it stem from any kind of self-deprecating tendency, etc.? I find it kind of a turn-on to think of being restrained, but more as a means of being able to accept pleasure without breing driven (or able) to reciprocate immediately.
I used to be kind of a sexpot, but have been out of practice for nearly a year now. It's been pretty good for me, I think, but I wonder what my big comeback will be...